Retirement:
Don't Lose Your Sense of Purpose
What
Will Retirement Be Like?
"It
will be great to do what I want when I want."
"Whew, no more office
politics to deal with!"
"At last, the government
will be paying me for a change."
"I'm finally F-R-E-E-E!!"
These statements reflect some
of the positive things about retirement that almost everyone
looks forward to. Unless it's due to illness, the reason most
retirees leave their jobs is because they want to, not because
they're pushed out. So for most, that last day on the job
is a joyful one filled with an invigorating sense of personal
freedom.
But many retirees are not prepared
for another feeling that often follows that last day of work:
a profound sense of loss.
You've Got Company
A study sponsored by Civic Ventures, Temple University, and
the Center for Intergenerational Learning surveyed retired
people of all economic levels, and found that the majority
had one thing in common: They felt lonely. It wasn't for lack
of friends, family and active social lives. Instead, it was
a loneliness for the kinds of relationships they had established
during their working years. Almost all workers are part of
teams of some kind, and those teams have daily problems to
solve, solutions to work out, new ideas to introduce.
An
architect who spent her life drawing plans had an office full
of people who understood her work and appreciated her creative
new ideas. A science teacher of many years had near-celebrity
status among his peers and his students, who always seemed
to be talking about the cool things they were learning in
his class. The manager of quality-control at an auto-assembly
plant felt pride in his team and got a special thrill each
fall when the new models came out and he saw them on the road.
At retirement, they may all
have one thing in common: loss of a sense of purpose. The
architect's purpose was to create satisfying designs, the
teacher's to stimulate young minds, the quality-control manager's
to assure that his company's products measured up to top standards.
What will replace the job satisfactions that were so much
a part of their identities?
These days, with rumblings
that social security might not last and with health care costs
escalating alarmingly, many retirees find that instead of
feeling the total freedom they dreamed about, they are haunted
by worries about whether they have enough money saved to actually
enjoy their retired years. The fact that people are living
so much longer than they did a decade ago should seem like
good news-but the prospect of how to finance all those extra
years is troublesome to many people when they leave the workforce.
It's a fact that retirement
can be an unsettling time. But it doesn't have to be.
Many people have a different
view of retirement. One respondent in the study mentioned
above said: "I like to think of myself as retiring
TO something as opposed to retiring FROM something."
In other words, retirement
shouldn't be a stopping point, but a continuation of the journey
through life. Why toss all the experience you've gained
through years of working? You're one of the "wise ones"
now. There are people out there who value you.
A 2005 comprehensive study
released by AARP and Towers Perrin, a human resources consulting
firm, showed that many employers are beginning to recognize
the value of older workers. It's that old-fashioned work ethic-you
know, expecting to actually show up on time and give a fair
day's work for a fair day's wage. In its September, 2006,
Bulletin, AARP honored 50 US employers who are "friendly"
to older workers.
But
doesn't going back to work defeat the whole idea of being
retired? Isn't it supposed to be time to stop showing up for
work when someone else says you should? You wanted freedom,
remember? Do you have to give that up to regain that sense
of purpose?
Absolutely not.
Thousands of people of all
ages are making money in home businesses that allow them to
be their own bosses and retain the exhilaration of
the freedom to run their own lives. At the same time, they're
able to generate extra income to bulk up the nest egg and
provide substantially more financial security for the 20,
30 or more years to come. Freedom from financial worry is
just as important as freedom from job demands if you're going
to enjoy the rest of your life. And as a home-based entrepreneur,
you can still enjoy all the dreams you planned. As long as
you have a computer and a phone, you can run your "home"
business from anywhere you call home-including your vacation
cottage, RV, or even your favorite beach.
If you're retired, or soon
will be, now is the time to get started. You already have
the skills you need. With a little extra help from the experts,
you can fine-tune them and start right away to put a sense
of purpose back in your life.
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can operate that will fulfill your needs.